Want to See Results Faster? Here’s What to Do After Your First Mentor Chat

So you just had your first lumentor session.
The conversation flowed, you got solid advice, they said I should book them again… and now you’re thinking:

That was great. But what do I say next time? And when does stuff actually start to change? Maybe I'll just wait till I cross that bridge to rebook them.

Here’s the thing: mentorship works best when it’s ongoing, one call can only do so much. Here’s the kicker: 95% of lumentor mentees who booked 5+ calls walked away within a month feeling clearer, more confident, and more in control of their career path, including job referrals! 

If you want progress, you’ve got to build momentum. Think of it this way: booking another call gives you a built-in due date, keeps you accountable, and turns advice into action. It might feel uncomfortable — but that’s where the growth happens, and is the difference between hoping for a job and landing (great) one.

Ready to stack results? Here’s how.

1. Ask for a Clear Takeaway

Before the call ends, ask:

“If I were to focus on one or two things after this, what would you suggest?”

That one question separates a “nice chat” from a next step. Write it down. Stick it on your mirror. Whatever works — just keep it visible so your momentum doesn’t vanish the second the Teams call ends.

2. Put the Advice into Motion

You don’t need perfect execution, you just need to start.

• Update your résumé

• DM the connection they mentioned

• Google that course

• Try out that new skill

Keep track of what you’ve done, even if it’s just a quick note in your phone. Then bring it back to your mentor. Share what worked, where you hit challenges, and what you learned. It not only keeps you accountable, it makes your next chat way more valuable because you’re building on real progress.

3. Build on It (with New Perspectives)

One mentor gives you a step forward. A second or third? That’s when dots start connecting.

Try asking:
“A previous mentor suggested I explore [X], how does that show up in your world?”

Every mentor has a different lens. By layering advice, you’ll spot patterns, challenge your thinking, and figure out what resonates with you. That’s where real growth kicks in.

4. Reconnect, Your Growth Story Matters

Don’t ghost your mentor after one convo. Book again. Follow up. Show them what you’ve applied, get their perspective on a project, insight, problem or job you were exploring.

Mentors love seeing progress! It proves their time mattered and it helps you build real, long-term connections in your corner.

Small shifts lead to big clarity over time.

And if you need more Mentor questions you can pull or get inspiration here.